{"id":641,"date":"2007-04-24T21:50:12","date_gmt":"2007-04-25T02:50:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/?p=641"},"modified":"2012-12-09T00:40:50","modified_gmt":"2012-12-09T06:40:50","slug":"its-martini-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/2007\/04\/24\/its-martini-time\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Martini Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chatted with some old &#8220;friends&#8221; this evening.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Back around the time I took prelims and moved into the Johnson Street house with Mike, Rachel, and Matt I became acquainted with a half dozen or more folks online who gelled into a group of friends over the months and then years. A few came and went. One or two had a falling out. Some have become busy with work and family and such and rarely heard from.<\/p>\n<p>Several &#8220;meets&#8221; have been undertaken, one in California, a couple in Oregon, and one we had September, 2003, in the Ozarks, among others. I&#8217;ve slept on couches with or around these people, driven across states, had them stay at my place, and had them over to eat pizza with my parents. It&#8217;s a weird way to develop friends and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>One pair &#8212; a couple, R&amp;A &#8212; will be here in Madison in June, since R got his astrophysics PhD here years and years ago.<\/p>\n<p>My only reason for mentioning this was that I got online, on IRC, this evening and saw one such old acquaintance (we&#8217;ve never met in person and never became personal friends, per se) in the channel, something I hadn&#8217;t seen in a year or longer. He, S, and his wife are <a href=\"http:\/\/shawnpierson.com\/\">expecting a daughter<\/a> in June (they do 3D ultrasounds these days &#8230; freaky); they&#8217;re at 34 weeks now and June 5 is the due date. Another, C, was in channel as well, so three of us got to talking, which is about the busiest the channel has been this late on a weeknight in ages. Ages. The third, she and her partner\/wife have an adorable daughter (sperm donor, I think, and one of the two went through the pregnancy) and are looking to adopt next year.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re going the open adoption route, they say, probably adopting an American child, probably from a teen mother giving up her child. I jokingly made a reference to Dan Savage &#8212; got his start here in Madison at 4-Star Video Heaven &#8212; who adopted years ago and is a proponent of open adoptions, and the coincidence is that they decided to go this route after reading his book.<\/p>\n<p>Go Dan Savage!<\/p>\n<p>(And if you don&#8217;t read Savage Love <em>every<\/em> week in The Onion [online] you should.)<\/p>\n<p>I mentioned some updates I need to make to my website &#8212; it had some technical difficulties after migrating between servers last week, since I&#8217;m the only one on the server who uses PostgreSQL and Sever Side Includes &#8212; to which C responded &#8220;you just made my head spin&#8221; and S said I should migrate to PHP or Java (both are IT folks; I already use some PHP). With regard to the techno-babble S replied, &#8220;you need a girlfriend and forget all that jibba jabba&#8221; &#8212; he might be right. Not going to be happening, though.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, it was great to speak with the two of them &#8212; it brought back a bit of the feeling of when the whole group of us had our own &#8220;social networking&#8221; site of sorts half a decade ago (hey, half of us or more were IT professionals &#8230; we were all about living on the bleeding edge. Then).<\/p>\n<p>Thursday morning I fly out to Ontario; alas, Nate likely won&#8217;t be there until Friday. At least the reservation is in my name, too, so I can check in. I&#8217;ll be at the Sheraton Suites Fairplex Pomona &#8230; what an obnoxiously long name. And people say German is bad. There is a &#8220;fitness studio&#8221; or &#8220;center&#8221; or whatever they call it. And a sauna, whirlpool &#8230; I could just relax the whole afternoon I guess. How decadent.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s Martini Time &#8230; or rather, that&#8217;s the Reverend Horton Heat album playing. The album Holy Roller ends with a smarmy cover of &#8220;Folsom Prison Blues&#8221; (you can just imagine the Reverend smirking as he sings it) and a cover of &#8220;The Entertainer&#8221; punctuated by farts and belches. Still a good album, but it&#8217;s been turned up a notch or two on It&#8217;s Martini Time.<\/p>\n<p>This evening was rehearsal time, and I got several walk-throughs with Beth Anne in our scenes, which was a good thing, since we&#8217;d only gone through our scenes, with <em>very little<\/em> direction from Manfred, a few times last week at the Play Circle. I still had no real idea what he wanted from me in terms of body language, tone of voice, etc., but I go that tonight.<\/p>\n<p><em>Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So to speak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chatted with some old &#8220;friends&#8221; this evening.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[83],"tags":[421,412,107],"class_list":["post-641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-myspace","tag-friends","tag-learning-my-lines","tag-music"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.universalem.org\/homo_aestheticus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}